Sex Handcuffs, Cuffs & Restraints

Handcuffs for Sex: Fur, Leather, Metal or Rope

Sex handcuffs turn a quiet night into restraint play. One partner enjoys surrendering control. The other takes it, and trusting each other holds the scene together. Handcuff sex is often the first kink people try, because kinky cuffs ask for little skill.

Our 67 handcuffs and restraints sit inside our wider BDSM range of BDSM and fetish gear, from $6.99 connectors to a $179.99 spreader bar set. The material decides the feel. Fur feels playful, leather feels serious, metal feels cold, and rope feels hands-on.

Furry Handcuffs for Beginners by Ouch and Fetish Fantasy

Ouch makes our Black Classic Fluffy Handcuffs, a $19.99 pair that's easy on the wrist. Fake fur covers the metal ring, so the cuffed partner feels comfort instead of steel. That's why furry handcuffs suit first-timers. These sexy handcuffs feel kinky without being scary.

Pipedream's Fetish Fantasy line adds bondage toys built for foreplay and roleplay. On any metal pair, look for a quick-release catch.

Xbliss Leather Handcuffs vs Metal Handcuffs With Chain

Xbliss LXB leather handcuffs close like buckle cuffs and carry a D-ring for connectors. The Standard Leather LXB Cuffs (49.99)areadjustable;thefur-linedLXBpair(74.99) adds padding. Clip on an O-ring connector, or pair them with leather collars and a leash.

Metal handcuffs with chain look like conventional handcuffs, and that's the risk. Police-style steel can tighten and injure the nerve at the wrist. Padded bondage cuffs are safer restraint devices because they spread pressure.

SHOP OUCH FLUFFY HANDCUFFS

A $19.99 starter pair, lined in faux fur. Free discreet shipping on orders over $59. Comfortable cuffs make a braver first scene.

Beyond the Wrists: Ankle Cuffs, Bed Restraints and Spreader Bars

Wrist restraints are only the start. Ankle cuffs, leg cuffs and bondage straps add full body restriction and real immobilization:

• Bed restraints: an under the bed restraint kit hides under-bed straps below the mattress, so no bedpost is needed.
• Hogtie kit: the Xbliss Four Way Restraint Hogtie Kit ($99.99) links wrist cuffs and ankle cuffs behind the back.
• Spreader bars: Pipedream's Spread'Em Bar and Cuff Set holds legs apart for new positions; browse more positioning and bondage furniture.
• Tape and rope: Ouch bondage tape is binding that sticks only to itself, and Soft Bondage Rope by Eros invites Shibari and rope bondage.

Finish with a satin blindfold from our gags and blindfolds a ball gag for sensory play, or nipple clamps for sharper sensation.

How to Use Sex Restraints Safely

Restraint play is power play. The power dynamics between dominance and submission only feel good when both people feel safe, so safety precautions turn restraint into pleasure. Faux leather, silicone cuffs and body-safe materials wipe clean with toy cleaners and care products.

Safe Word, Consent and Boundaries in BDSM

Consent comes before the first buckle. Negotiation means each partner names boundaries, fantasies and hard limits out loud. Pick a safe word that's easy to say, like "red." Agree on a gesture too, in case a gag is involved. The dominant partner stays responsible; the submissive, even tied up, keeps the power to stop the scene. Open dialogue matters just as much afterward. Good communication makes the next role play better.

Circulation, the Two-Finger Rule and Quick-Release Velcro Cuffs

Tight restraint should never cut off circulation. Follow these steps every time:

1. Apply the two-finger rule: two fingers should slide between the cuff and the skin.
2. Do check-ins every few minutes, and ask about numbness or tingling in the hands.
3. Never leave a restrained person alone.
4. Keep Ouch Bondage Safety Scissors ($24.99) or panic snaps within reach.
5. End with aftercare: water, a blanket, and a talk.

Velcro cuffs and quick-release clips open in a second, so these restraint straps suit a nervous beginner.

Sex Cuffs: Your Questions, Answered

Quick answers about sexual bondage.

Are Sex Handcuffs Safe for Beginners?

Yes, when they're padded and adjustable. Sex-friendly handcuffs spread pressure across the wrist. For handcuffed sex or bondage play, start with one wrist restraint, keep sessions short, and use the two-finger rule.

What Are the Most Comfortable Wrist and Ankle Restraints?

Fur-lined leather, velvet, neoprene and soft nylon webbing win. Wide straps reduce injuries, burns and nerve damage. Wrist and ankle restraints with a padded lining stay comfortable through a long scene.

Can I Use Restraints Without a Bedpost?

Yes. A bed restraint system, web restraint system or restraint kit runs under the mattress. Door-frame cuffs and a restraint system with a hogtie also work on any bed.

What If I Lose the Key to My Handcuffs?

Many metal handcuffs use a standard key, and most pairs include two. Store one spare away from the bedroom. Buckle cuffs and rope cuffs have no locking mechanism at all, so escape is always easy.

Bondage Handcuffs From Quebec's Largest Erotic Boutique Network

Eros is a Quebec family business with 28 boutiques, from Gatineau to Rimouski. Our team stocks bondage handcuffs from Ouch, Shots Toys, Xbliss, Pipedream, Coquette, Master Series and Fifty Shades of Grey. Every store also carries the vibrator, massager and other sex toys to finish a kit. Host a sex toy party at home for a hands-on demo.

Expert BDSM Advice, Discreet Shipping or a Pickup Point

Our staff answer kink questions with no shame and no judgment. Ask which bondage accessories fit your wrists, or how cotton rope compares to nylon. Online orders leave the warehouse within 24 business hours. Every box ships with discreet shipping and discreet packaging, or goes to a pickup point near you.

FIND BONDAGE KITS NEARBY

Try sex cuffs in person at one of our 28 boutiques. Your pleasure, your rules.