Strap On Dildos & Harnesses for Every Body

Strap-Ons at Eros: Hands-Free Pleasure, Your Rules

Strap-ons turn a dildo into something you wear. The harness holds the toy at the pelvis, so the wearer moves freely and keeps both hands for touching, holding and teasing. Couples use strap-on play for pegging, roleplay, vaginal penetration or simply a role swap. Solo exploration counts too. No shame, no judgment: your pleasure, your rules.

Wearer, Receiver and Consent: Pleasure for Every Couple

A strap-on for couples should feel good for both partners, and that starts with a conversation. The receiver sets the pace, and the wearer checks in often. Consent stays active the whole time, so agree on a simple stop word before you begin.

The wearer gets pleasure too. A curved base can press on the clitoris, and some harnesses hold a bullet for clitoral stimulation. Sharing one toy between partners? Slip on a condom and change it between uses. Trust, the habit to communicate and a little lube build real intimacy and connection.

Choose Your Strap-On Setup

Every strap-on setup has two parts: something to hold the toy, and the toy itself. Some kits bundle both. Others let you mix a harness with the dildo you already love.

Strap On Harness Styles: Universal, Lingerie and Boxer Harness

A strap on harness should give a secure fit and stay comfortable, without pinching. The universal harness is the classic: adjustable straps around the waist and thighs, with an O-ring in front. Elite Body Dock models by King Cock and the Fetish Fantasy line from Pipedream harnesses fit most bodies, plus size included.

Prefer something you can wear like underwear? Try one of these:

• A boxer harness by Shots, with a vibrating ring built in
• A lingerie harness, like the Ouch thong with adjustable garters
• A thigh harness, like the glow in the dark Ouch model, that turns a leg into a mount
• A leather harness by LXB or XBLISS for a firmer, premium feel

Strapless Strap-Ons and Vibrating Strap-Ons by Strap-on-me

Strap-on-me makes the bendable strapless strap-on in three sizes, with a flexible neck you can shape. The shorter insertable bulb sits inside the wearer, so there are no straps or buckles at all. Strapless strap-ons work like double-ended dildos, with one shaft for each partner and plenty of body-to-body contact.

A vibrating strap-on adds motors to the mix. Rechargeable models offer several vibration patterns, and remote-controlled ones let the receiver steer the intensity. The CalExotics Love Rider, a beaded dual penetrator, even allows double penetration. Want buzz without a new toy? Slip one of our bullet vibrators into a harness pouch.

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How to Choose the Best Strap-On

The best strap-on is the one you both look forward to using. Material, size and shape matter most. Beginners do best with a beginner strap-on that is slim and comfortable; you can always size up.

Body-Safe Silicone Strap-On Dildos from King Cock and RealRock

Strap-on dildos come in two main styles: realistic shapes with veins and balls, or smooth fantasy shapes. King Cock and RealRock make lifelike dildos. Pick body-safe silicone when you can: it is hypoallergenic, phthalate-free, warms quickly and cleans easily. Browse our silicone dildos for more shapes and colours.

Silicone strap-ons are durable and easy to clean, but hygiene still matters. Wash it with a toy cleaner or mild soap after every session. Glass and stainless steel give a firmer feel, while leather and vegan materials suit the harness side.

O-Ring Fit, Size and Your First Pegging Kit

A dildo fits a harness when its flared base is wider than the O-ring. Most harnesses include interchangeable rings, so measure the shaft diameter before you buy.

For a first pegging kit, follow these steps:

1. Start with a slim, curved shaft of 4 to 5 inches that targets the prostate or G-spot.
2. Warm up with anal play and smaller beginner anal toys first.
3. Use a generous amount of water-based lube, which protects silicone.
4. Go slow and try a few positions before you settle in.

Experienced users often move up to dual density or larger shafts later.

Find Your Pegging Kit at an Eros Boutique

Talk it through with an expert in person. Our teams answer your questions with zero judgment. Not sure where to start? Our boutique teams are happy to guide you, no question too small.

Strap Ons: Your Questions, Answered

Quick answers to what shoppers ask us most about strap ons.

What is a strapless strap on, and how do pelvic muscles hold it in place?

A strapless strap on is a dildo with a bulb for the wearer and a shaft for the partner. Many people find the internal pressure adds sensitivity. Your pelvic muscles grip the bulb, much like a kegel exercise. Bendable necks help with the angle, and a harness can still go on top for extra stability.

Can any dildo fit a strap-on harness O-ring?

Only a dildo with a flared base will stay put in a strap-on harness. Our suction base dildos are a safe bet, since the wide suction cup sits behind the ring.

Can anyone wear a strap on dildo, whatever their gender?

Yes. Strap-on toys are for every body and every LGBTQ+ or straight couple. Hollow strap-ons by RealRock and Fetish Fantasy fit over a penis, while Banana Prosthetics makes gender-affirming harnesses that hold a soft packer for everyday wear.

Is shipping discreet across Canada?

Always. Orders leave our warehouse within 24 business hours in neutral, unmarked packaging, and shipping is free on qualifying orders.

Shop Strap-Ons in Canada at Eros

Eros is the largest erotic boutique network in Quebec, and a family-owned business. Our strap-ons in Canada range covers a wide choice of strap-on sex toys, from a single harness kit to hollow options, with brands like CalExotics, Dillio, Strap-on-me and our own Eros Zone line.

Free Discreet Shipping on Qualifying Orders, or Pickup Points

Shipping is free on qualifying orders, in discreet packaging, with delivery in 1 to 2 business days to major Quebec centres. Rather not have a parcel at your door? Choose a pickup point at checkout and collect your order when it suits you. Prefer to see and feel the toys first? Visit a boutique.

Find Strap-On Kits at One of 28 Eros Boutiques

Twenty-eight boutiques, one promise: no shame, no judgment. Visit us from Gatineau to Rimouski. Your pleasure, your rules, at your own pace.